“I want to play a game.” 😈
We have 6 mini kinky games for you to participate in, and prizes waiting to be won. But warning ahead: There might be some painful consequences if you lose...
There is no Introduction to Negotiation & Kink Etiquette at this party. We will have an online version. Details coming soon.
Date: 12th May 2023 (Friday)
Time: Friday night 8 pm-1 am
Location: Downtown San Jose
You will receive the address the day before the event via email
Dress Code: Gamers’ choice. You can dress like a gamer, or dress like whom a gamer would play as.
Dress Code is not mandatory
Registration close at noon on 12th May
Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. Your support is appreciated and will help us keep running events! 🙌🏻
A Walk in the Dark
It’s a room full of traps! Can you make it out unscratched in time? If only you can see what’s on the ground… Don’t worry, your friends are here to help! … or are they?
Kinky Trivia
You gain one point for answering correctly. If you answer wrong, you lose one point. All you need to do is get more than 5 points at the end to win. I mean, how hard could that be…?
Decency, please!
Ew, nipples? No one wants to see them! Help cover up your friend’s nipple with some stickers!
Blindfolded Twister
A Twister with a twist!
Lie to me
Can you tell if someone’s lying about their kinky experience? Are you a good liar?
Painful Connection
Hold on to the rope while you are trying your best not to get hit… OUCH! Okay, now it’s payback time!
Gamers’ choice. You can dress like a gamer, or dress like whom a gamer would play as.
OR just your authentic kinky self 💕
The venue is located in Downtown San Jose, please dress appropriately - street-legal clothing in public areas. You may revive your true kinky self once you are inside the venue.
We will have signs to indicate "Fetish wear behind these doors ONLY."
8:00pm: Door opens
8:30pm - 10:00pm: The Games are ON 😈
10:00pm: Door closes
10:00pm - 11:30pm: Start the other 3 games ⛓️
12:30am: Wind down
1:00am: Party ends
There is no Introduction to Negotiation & Kink Etiquette at this party. We will have an online version. Details coming soon.
Your kinky self and your toy/rope bag 💜 Remember to pack for you/your bottom's aftercare needs. Bring your stuffies/blankie to make yourself comfy! We will have snacks, drinks, and space to cuddle.
Any violation of the rules might result in a hard ban from our future events. We might also share the incident report with other kink groups, especially in case of severe consent violations.
DM & Hosts (on duty) will be wearing a bright neon green harnesses.
Ask for explicit consent before engaging in any activities with others. Always ask before touching, that goes for people and their belongings.
Only an enthusiastic YES is a yes. If the other person seems hesitant or doubtful, please take that as a “No.” and don’t ask again. You may offer future opportunities for them to reach out to you if they do change their mind. The key is: Let them come to you after the initial "No"
It is also important to clearly communicate the potential risk of the play to the best of your ability.
There is zero tolerance for hate speech. Help create a safe space for everyone, regardless of their role, gender, ethnicity, orientation, religion, experience, or skill level.
Do not vandalize or go to closed-off areas.
Do not share details or the location of the venue with non-attendees. If someone approaches you and asks for the address, point them to @Nocturnal_Event or email hello@madebymooooo.com
Be discreet. There’s a ballet studio next door and vanilla people in the street. If you wish to step outside, please at least wear a big coat over your kink wear.
We have a changing and storage room for you to transform into your kinky authentic self ✨
If someone is making you uncomfortable, go to the DMs, or ask your friend to accompany you to do so. We are here to help.
While we try our best to create a safe space, we can not police everything. Please use your own judgment when vouching play partners, ask around for references, ask a lot of questions, and trust your gut if anything feels off.
Apply critical thinking. Plan for a “buddy system”. Negotiate before the party instead of doing pick-up play.
We need your help to create a safe space for everyone. If you notice something that doesn't seem quite right, speak up. Or please tell our DMs or the Hosts.
In case of unfortunate events or incident reports, please DM talk to us on Fetlife @Nocturnal_Events, or e-mail hello@madebymooooo.com
We can’t cover every possible kink and situation. If there’s any gray area, please ask us for permission before doing it, as you would do for negotiating with a new play partner.
If you are using the furniture or mats, make sure to wipe them with cleaning spray before AND after your scenes. We also provide disposable sheets and waterproof pads.
No glow stick = Do not initiate a conversation with me
Red glow stick = Do not ask me for pick-up play, but I'm open to conversation.
Green glow stick = Open to conversation & potential pick-up play
When you are in the Play Space or Aftercare room, wear a glow stick on your wrist if you are open for conversation. Meanwhile, only initiate conversations with those who are wearing a glow stick. Details on our Glow Stick System
If you see something that you suspect is unsafe, talk to a DM or a Host.
If you are not in a scene, or your scene isn’t starting within 15 mins, please don’t hoard the play stations.
Ask a DM for help if you needed.
While a big flame is not allowed, we do allow lit candles for wax play. When in doubt, ask a DM or a Host.
Bring your own (graded) suspension gear.
There will be some puzzle mats provided for your shibari/rope bondage scenes. You can also bring your own mats/blankets.
We are providing some puzzle mats for your scenes. You can also bring your own mats/blankets. Be mindful of where you set up, and avoid the social area and doorway as people might be walking through a lot. Notify the DMs so they know to keep people away.
While we do not allow “home-base” sexual play — "full" (penetrative) sexual intercourse, you may explore your sexuality with insertable toys, your all-powerful hands and your oral cavity.
For a quick summary...
🚫 Penis in vagina
🚫 Penis in anus
🚫 Pegging (from all genders, to all holes.) Using a strap on or holding any insertables and thrusting with your hip = pegging.
✅ Anal toys (plugs, hooks, dildos, beads, speculum etc.)
✅ Insertable toys in vagina (dildos, speculum, vibrator etc.)
✅ Fingering (in whichever hole)
✅ Oral sex
✅ “Outside” stimulation: Hand jobs, Hitachi, slapping, rubbing etc.
If you made a mess on the carpet/sofa, there will be a $500 fine (to the venue.)
You can enjoy exploring most types of power exchange / BDSM / Fetish play as long as everyone involved consents and is risk-aware.
If you are not sure we allow the type of kink you want to explore at our events, or you need special accommodation/set up for your scene, please contact the Host @Nocturnal_Events BEFORE the event.
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Last Edited 17 April 2023